What Meditation Looks Like When It's Designed for Real Life
What Is Instinctive Meditation?
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What is Instinctive Meditation?
If you've been to one of my classes, you might already know that it's a little different from a typical meditation practice. The meditation I teach is called Instinctive Meditation. It's a practice developed by Lorin Roche and Camille Maurine based on the idea that meditation is a natural skill that everyone already has. What we're doing when we practice is strengthening that skill and learning how to go deeper with it.
Think of it like running. We all have a natural ability to run, and if we want to do it faster or for longer distances, we need to practice regularly. Instinctive Meditation works the same way. It invites us to practice, but to do so naturally and gently, without forcing anything.
And here's something runners know well: muscles don't actually grow during the workout. They grow during rest. Push too hard without enough recovery and you get injured. The same is true for our emotional and mental lives. We carry so much, and we need rest that goes deeper than sleep to truly recover. That's exactly what meditation offers. Not more effort, but a different quality of rest.
Many Doorways In
One of the things I love most about this approach is that it teaches us there are many natural doorways into meditation. These can be things we already love, like yoga, dance, hiking, or deep conversation with someone we care about. Sometimes the doorways are less obvious. Even moments of hardship or pain can become portals into a meditative state when we have nowhere else to go. Instinctive Meditation teaches us how to be fully alive in our bodies and how to welcome everything, even our shadow side and the parts of us that feel difficult or uncomfortable.
The Backbone: The Radiance Sutras
At the heart of Instinctive Meditation is a book called The Radiance Sutras. It is Lorin Roche's translation of an ancient Indian text called the Vijnana Bhairava Tantra, rendered in a deeply poetic and lyrical way that transmits the emotion and energy of the original. This text offers 112 sutras, each one a doorway into meditation, and sometimes many doorways at once.
The text is over a thousand years old, and yet it holds the very same experiences we have today. It reminds us that everything is welcome, and everything can be a meditation.
Meditation in Everyday Life
The Radiance Sutras brings this ancient wisdom into modern life using everyday language and everyday experiences. These are not esoteric practices. This is daily life, the life we're already living.
Everything is sacred here. The warmth of your bed as you linger in that soft transition between sleeping and waking. Your morning coffee. Looking into the face of your pet or your child. Standing outside at night, gazing up at a sky full of stars with a sense of wonder you can't quite put into words. All of these are natural meditations. Instinctive Meditation teaches us that these moments are always with us. We just have to learn how to be more present and more welcoming with all of them.
Our senses are doorways too, and literal bridges between our inner world and the outer world. Through them, we perceive, experience, interact, and connect with everything around us. We see the beauty in what surrounds us. We hear music, a loved one's voice, the cry of a child, the rustle of wind. We smell and taste nourishing food, the perfume of flowers. We touch and feel the hands of someone we love, the soft fur of a pet, the texture of earth beneath our feet. Each of these is an invitation inward.
Why It's Different
Instinctive Meditation is designed for people living full, vibrant lives in the world, not for monks in a monastery.
Much of what we've inherited as "meditation" comes from the monastic traditions of Asia. These practices were designed for renunciates: people who have left ordinary life behind. They can be beautiful in their own way, but they're often not well suited to householders. Most of us have jobs, families, and full lives in the world, and we need an approach that meets us there.
Instructions like "quiet your mind" or "be very still" make perfect sense in a monastery. But in the world most of us live in, where life moves quickly and we're surrounded by relationship and responsibility, these approaches can feel inaccessible and may actually work against us. Instinctive Meditation meets us where we are, and invites us to find peace not by retreating from life, but by going deeper into it.
If any of this resonates with you, I'd love to support you on this path. Whether you're brand new to meditation or returning after time away, feel free to reach out or explore the courses and offerings on this site. You don't need to become something you're not. You just need to become more fully what you already are.
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